Monday, May 18, 2015

Charles Perry - R.I.P.

I learned yesterday that Charles Perry died recently, a victim of Alzheimer's disease in a nursing home.  Charles was a key person to me as I grew up in Citra, Florida.  He was a role model and like both a big brother and a favorite uncle.  


Within a year of buying The Orange Shop, Dad hired Charles Perry, a young man recently returned from service in WWII.  For many years, Charles managed The Orange Shop and Dad gave him credit for creating a thriving business that was profitable and served loyal customers for decades.  He became Dad’s partner and, in my opinion, my Dad’s best friend.  Dad and my mother, and later, Dad and Shelby, and Charles and his lovely wife, Vivian, would cheer on the University of Florida’s football team together in Gainesville.


I idolized Charles.  He was athletic, bright, personable and could do anything.  Dad was not handy and owned no tools.  When something in the house broke, Dad would ask me to walk over to The Orange Shop to borrow a hammer or a screw driver.  Charles would always ask what we needed it for.  Then he would say, “I’ll walk back with you.  Maybe I can help.”  Then he would fix it.


Charles taught me how to work at The Orange Shop, came down hard on me when I swore, and taught me to respect everyone.  He  took me fishing on the Gulf Coast with his friend, Getzsie, and when I was a junior in high school, even let me have a beer.  I wanted to grow up to  be like Charles Perry.


After, I moved north, I only saw Charles once a year during my vacation.  I reconnected with him briefly when we moved to North Carolina and my brother, John, was setting up a new orange shop in Ocala.  By then, Charles had retired as active manager of the shop and his son-in-law, Rob, had taken over.


One thing I regret - I never told Charles how important he was to me when I was growing up.


Seasoned Man


Friday, May 15, 2015

Brian Goldman - R.I.P.

At a kindergarden school function, grandson Ben was dressed like Albert Einstein and explained a poster describing Einstein’s life and accomplishments.  Other students had similar exhibitions.  As we walked around talking to the students, we noticed one tall, well-built man talking to each child.  He knelt in front of each one, looked him/her in the eye and spoke softly.  We talked about the wonderful contact he made with the children.  Later, we discovered he was Brian Goldman.

After a few years, Brian became both of our grandson’s coach at a nearby swim club.  While he was a serious coach and produced outstanding swim teams, his manner of interacting with his young swimmers made him special.  They loved him, respected him and kept improving.

We got to know Brian, his wife, Michele and their two sons, Ben and Jared, at parties hosted by Jennifer, our daughter, and Peter, our son-in-law.  While Brian was a prominent physician in Raleigh, to me he was always Coach Brian.

During his bout with cancer, I had the urge to offer to be with him during his ordeal.  I didn’t make the offer.  I reasoned he had hundreds of friends near his age who would be with him.

Now, I wished I had reached out.

Coach Brian, Rest in Peace.

Seasoned Man
stevelem117@gmail.com

A Shattering Experience

Remember the ads on TV when an opera star would sing a high note and cocktail glasses and mirrors would shatter.  I always doubted a person could hit a frequency that would set up a vibration to shatter glass.  Boy, was I wrong!

I was sitting on our patio last night when Aloma came out.  She was trying out an allergy medicine she planned to take before singing in a concert on Friday.  She sang a few notes then belted a high note that rocked the neighborhood.

She went back inside and hit the high note again.  Suddenly the light bulb on the ceiling of the deck exploded and glass came down right beside me.  I didn’t know whether I’d been shot or bombed.  Glass was everywhere.  The socket was still in the light fixture.  Just the glass came down.

I got up and asked Aloma to come out and showed her the glass and explained what happened.  She dismissed it.  Just a coincidence.  I told her never in 77 years had I seen a glass light bulb explode, especially when the light wasn’t even on.

I wouldn’t believe this if I hadn’t been part of it.

Now I’m worried about the concert on Friday.  I’m going to wear plastic safety glasses.

Seasoned Man
stevelem117@gmail.com

Saturday, May 9, 2015

Deaths In Perspective

Based on watching news on TV during February and March, I concluded the greatest threats to our children and grandchildren and, maybe, our great-grandchildren are:

Terrorist attacks:
Ebola
Measles
HIV/AIDS

That’s a frightening list.  But I like to understand more than what I hear on TV or read on the Internet.

After researching deaths by various means, I now have a different understanding of our threats in this country - at least current threats.  The following are deaths per year in the United States:

Terrorist attacks          17 since 9/11, 2011
Ebola                           1
Measles                       None in last 10 years
HIV/AIDs                     16,000

These numbers are not so terrifying.  However, look at these numbers of deaths per year in the United States.

Cancer                        575,000
Sepsis (blood
poisoning)                    555,000
Accidents                    123,000
Flu                               36,000 (50,000 this past year)
Auto                             34,000
Guns                           32,000
Age related deaths      1,300,000
(heart, respiratory, cardiovascular and Alzheimer's)

While past statistics don’t predict the future, it seems our national press is creating news and then sticking with it until the public grows tired.  Then on to something else.

I learned a few other things doing this short research that I’ll share in another blog.

Seasoned Man

stevelem117@gmail.com