Bill was one of seven original members of a men’s support group based on the concept of Re-Evaluation Counseling. For over 40 years the group met every three weeks to support each other as we dealt with personal and career issues.
The group was there for me when I was going through a distressing divorce, and we were there when Bill went through his divorce. We rejoiced as he met Ellen; we were all at their wedding.
Carl, our founder, died early. I moved away 22 years ago and Dick P. also moved away. Now that Bill is gone, only three members are left in Rochester but they plan to continue meeting.
Bill Grey was personable, optimistic, loyal and creative. He went through some hard times late in life, but worked through them and enjoyed his last years. We talked on the phone a week before he died, and he said he knew he only had a few days left. He said he had learned that true wealth is health and relationships. Money has little to do with it.
He told me years ago that he always packs his bathing suit when going on a business trip. He said the bathing suit, whether or not he uses it, reminds him that even a business trip can be pleasant. Since he told me that, I always pack a bathing suit when I leave town - and always think of Bill.
He told me years ago that he always packs his bathing suit when going on a business trip. He said the bathing suit, whether or not he uses it, reminds him that even a business trip can be pleasant. Since he told me that, I always pack a bathing suit when I leave town - and always think of Bill.
I packed my bathing suit for the 14 hour car trip to Rochester for his funeral. I thought of Bill as I packed it.
Seasoned Man
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